How to Get a Guy Who Already Has a Girlfriend

If you have a crush on a guy who is already in a relationship, then you will have to overcome that obstacle if you want the guy to be your boyfriend. Understand that it is possible he won't want to end his current relationship, but it just might happen. Follow these steps to get a guy who already has a girlfriend, or at least be his friend.

Instructions

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     Try to be around the guy when you can. Be careful to not be naggy or look like a stalker. When you are around your crush, be nice, friendly and respectful.
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     Remember to have your hair done, makeup on and be wearing attractive clothes any time you think you might be around your crush. Guys are visual, and he will appreciate the effort you try to look good.
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     Start conversations with the guy. When talking to him, compliment him and say things that you think will make him feel special. Make it obvious that you are interested in things that he likes.
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     Be there for your crush if he ever needs help, has a problem or needs advice. You will begin to develop a strong friendship.
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     Tell him that you are interested in having a deeper relationship with him when you feel the time is right. Respect the relationship that he has currently. Simply tell your crush how you feel, but assure him that you are fine with just being friends until he is single again. This demonstrates a high level of maturity. With any luck, he might have the same feelings for you and decide to end his relationship with his current girlfriend.

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Tips & Warnings

• Realize that while your crush might not be ready to end his relationship right now, if that it ever does end, he might ask you out. Therefore, continue to be his friend.
• Don't use any kind of sexual or other physical contact to try to convince the guy to leave his girlfriend.
• Don't flirt with him or make your intentions obvious when you are in front of other people. You may end up with a bad reputation.