How to get inside in a shy girl`s mind

Learn how to get inside into a shy girl's mind whether or not she's interested in you.


Walk up to her and ask her, or if she's just too shy for that, send an email to her, saying:
"Hi, I would like to ask you a question, may I? I should say that I want to tell you something, is this all right with you? Anyway, I will tell you later."


Give her time to think about that question. Once you meet her, just greet her but without any conversation. Smile at her, then walk away.


Be patient. Within a few days, if the girl works up her courage to ask what question you wanted to ask her, or what it was you wanted to say to her - it means she may have feelings for you.


Tips:

• Be patient. Bide your time and just wait. Give her a couple of days. Remember, she's shy.
• Realize that many "shy" girls aren't really all that shy, once they've had a couple conversations with you, and others might turn out to not really be shy at all, just quiet-natured. If they're in the second category, realize that it's a long-term thing that you have to be okay with.
• Treat her like she's a normal person, many people are not shy but are forced to be due to certain things like unpopularity. She might just seem shy because she doesn't know you.
• Treat her like a girl. Just because she's shy doesn't mean you have to treat her differently.
• Be yourself she won't like you if you are trying to be someone you're not.
• Flatter her. Even shy girls love compliments, on anything from their clothes to their talents.

Warnings:

Don't push it. Coming on too strong to ANYONE, especially shy folk, is something people flee from.